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6 Signs to Know He is in Love with you

I once had a friend who had a girl he was dating. The girl actually loved him but she really disliked the fact that whenever they had little issues or disagreement, rather than him apologizing verbally and they both ironing out the challenge, he would buy her some gifts instead as a way to express his sorry.

He preferred buying her some nice dresses, bags, or her favourite delicacies just in a bid to win her heart than he apologizing for his wrong. To him, getting her costly stuffs would suffice. He felt everything were all about the money.

Actually, relationships are never all about the money. It’s in the little things we do daily, the lovely word we say (that seem not to count), the little gestures – that thoughtful gift, phone call or even a sweet surprise lunch – that make relationship sweeter and stronger.

As we look for some kind of closure to finding that special someone, that deepest friendship and that cherished love, we must bear in mind that grooming relationship takes time. It entails two imperfect individuals coming together to share in a common goal, dreams, desires, time, etc.

Someone once said:

A meaningful life is not about being rich, being popular, being highly educated or being perfect… It’s about being real, being humble, being able to share our lives and touch the lives of others. It is only then that we could have a full, happy and contented life.

Are there things you can see in a relationship as a guy that will give you as signal or an assurance that he is into you?

Is there are way to know that he is deeply in love with you?

Below are a few little things a guy would do that shows he is really into you.

1. He Surprises you with an SMS when you least expect.

For relationships where the both individuals are caught up with busy schedules without anytime or space to even breathe; this is the most challenging part of a relationship. It takes a conscious effort to keep the lines open.

If just when you were least expecting it, he sends you an SMS asking you to take ten minutes off and have lunch with him, or simply want to hear your voice or tell you how much he’s missing you! It can make your day so awesome like nothing else can. It goes a long way to compensate for the lost hours by reason of the busy work life. If a guy can spare some minutes out of his busy schedule and sends you surprising SMS like:

Hey darling, how was your day… I just thought of saying Hi… Sweet dreams

It’s therefore a good sign that he is in love with you. It is far above normal and entails some extra efforts. It’s all about value. If he values you to the point of sparing some little time just to check up on you, you should be sure that he means what he says when told you he Loved you.

2. He leaves a Love Notes

You had not spent quality time with your boyfriend in a while and have probably been thinking of dropping by his office/home sometime soon to share some time together and just as you were coming out of your office with these thoughts, you find a scrap of paper flapping against your windshield and discover that he left you a sweet love note!

Regardless of what’s written in it, these are signs that make you sure that he is into you. Great surprises like love letter like these can sweep you off your feet and bring life into your relationship

3. Soft Peck on the Cheek

Imagine when he wakes up very early in the morning and before he moves out for work, he comes to your bed and gives you a mild peck – so romantic! Or at the close of the day, or at night, he gives you a calming peck before he goes to bed – so adoring! These are good signs – evidently, he loves you.

4. He Uses your Picture as His Screensaver.

You didn’t know this, but got to find out when you come over to his place. Just when you thought you had landed an utterly unromantic boyfriend, you saw yourself fade in and fade out on his screen! How awesome and lovely! These are what great relationships are made of, breathtaking moments of your relationship that makes it even much more special!

5. A Goodnight Call!

Come to think of it; you both have been extremely busy with work; time at this point becomes of the essence and by reason of the tight schedule you both face even on the weekend. It just happens that you haven’t had the time to call each other. But just late into the night, he buzzes in just to ask about your day, sharing in your daily experiences, listening to you narrate the script of your day and bid you goodnight at the end.

This is what wouldn’t stop smile from your face till the next morning! It’s a good sign, Ladies, that he is into you.

6. Brings Flower at your Workplace

Of course, Him sending flowers on your birthday is quite normal and very-much expected and though surprising if he didn’t! Well, but Just when you never expected considering his long work hours and he just spare some minutes from his lunch break and send a bunch of your favourite pink flowers to the office one day, that’s the kind of surprise that would make you want to fall in Love with him over and over him. It’s not about the weight of the action but just that little expression of value, love and care makes the difference.

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Kuru Jerry

Kuru Jerry is an Inspirational Writer and a Career and Counselling Coach, who has groomed and impacted lives through his teachings and works.

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